There is no indecisiveness as far as you are concerned. You want your ex back. Any problems the two of you had are minor compared to all the good times you and your ex shared. It's not so much you want to recreate those moments but you do want it to serve as a building block to create some new wonderful experiences.

Were you made for each other? You like to think so but the million dollar question is how does your ex feel about it? There are some positive signs that they may feel the same way such as not eliminating all contact with you. Not packing up all the things you gave them and leaving them on your doorstep. That's a good deal but they did tell you in no uncertain terms that as of right now and the foreseeable future they are not interested in renewing the relationship.

Therefore the last thing you want to do is sit around telling everyone who will listen how much you want them back. So turn the tables around and start getting your ex to miss you.

1. Fade Away

No phone calls, text messages, emails or dropping into to those old haunts the two of you used visit. Do it for as long as you can. If they have feelings for you sooner or later their curiosity is going to get the better of them.

2. Going Forward

You may not be able to disappear fully. At least one or two mutual friends of you and your ex will see you; which means they are going to report back to the other person. Make sure the report they give goes some thing like this, "I've never seen them more positive and happy." Your ex finding out you can get along without them indicates they don't have as much sway over you as they assumed.

3. Good Manners

By now your ex is probably curious as to what is going on with you so they make of point of contacting you. Keep a check on your emotions but also keep a check on your demeanor. Since you've started to feel better about yourself there may be a tendency to start feeling your oats which can display itself in the form of rudeness. Remember you are trying to get your ex back not drive them away for good so be courteous.