There’s always some reasons why women leave men. When your girl has walked out on you, it can be really tough to figure out exactly why. She might not even give you the real reason behind her decision to leave you and that will only make it even harder. It takes some serious thought to get it figured out. Here are the main reasons why women leave men:

1. A Change In The Relationship

Very often, women leave because there’s been some sort of change between you, and it isn’t always easy to recognize this exact change down. But the majority of us have been there before: The relationship has lost its spark, it’s not fun anymore, the feeling is gone. It’s just as you’re friends now, and all that excitement is gone.

But both of you wrong if you think that. In reality, that spark is there somewhere; it’s just hidden under a bunch of junk. You guys have become bored and apathetic. Relationships take work, and you’ve got to get that spark going again.

Several guys miss the point completely and say, "But we are still having sex!" That might be even worse, and I will tell you exactly why. It is because, if she feels like the romance and pleasure have died but you guys are still getting it on, she will think that you’re merely using her for sex.

2. You aren't There When She Needs You

Women demand support. LOTS of us. Guys are usually more independent, but all of us need some support from time to time. Women need it much more than men. Support does not merely mean affection; it also means respect. You may not realize it, but you might be belittling her and never respecting her views. Women need to feel this respect, which means you have to show it.

This occasionally happens because both of you just too occupied for quality time together. When she wants to talk and you’re busy, she might think you’re brushing her off. What you should do here is spend more time together, and let her know that you respect her as an individual.

Women need affection, respect, praise, encouragement and a shoulder to cry on. They need you to listen to them and to apologize if you do something foolish. Sound like a lot? It is! But remember, she’s your lover, partner, friend, support system and co-conspirator; she needs to be all of that.

3. Major Life Changes

Sometimes women leave because their life has changed and the guy’s life hasn’t. She’s moved on into a new zone in her life, and you’re still in the last one. Maybe it's because you were not paying attention when the change came, or because you don’t want to follow her into this new phase of her life.

One big difference between guys and gals is that women look at everything in the long view, and guys generally don’t. When I say "long view," I’m not referring to next week or even next month. I’m talking about years and years down the road. If she’s thinking about the future and you aren't, this could trigger several problems. If she’s looking at the future and you’re not in it, this can be really serious.

You have to show her that you’re keeping up with her changes and planning your future together too. These life changes are just like bumps in the road; they don’t have to completely toss you into the ditch. It is possible to weather the storm if you keep communicating with one another and keep supporting each other.

When you already realize why women leave men, you can do something about your own relationship. Remember these reasons and keep the doors of communication open, and you can fix your problems as they come up on you.