Your girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, life partner, whoever it may be, just left you. Now what? Well, that all is dependent on what YOU want to have happen next.

If you are just fine with being dumped and prefer to partake the single life, do whatever you desire, I can't help you. On the contrary, if you would like your ex back, I'm delighted to share that I can help you get your ex back, but it is absolutely essential that you comply with some very simple steps.

Step 1 - Accept that the separation was the right decision. You may possibly be thinking to yourself "is this guy nuts? I don't want them to think that. I want them to think that I want them back". That's one of the most frequent mistakes individuals make when they try to get their ex back.

By admitting to your ex that you agree with the split up does two things: first, you and your ex are in agreement on something, which is more than likely something that you haven't done in a while, and it'll probably feel genuinely good for both of you, and second, it immediately takes away a sizable amount of the tenseness that is being experienced by both of you.

Now that you've laid the footing, it's time to carry out step 2.

Step 2 - Technically, this is more something that you shouldn't do than what you should do. DO NOT make contact with your ex about anything! Sever all communication and give her the space that she desires. This will provide her plenty of opportunity to miss you again. When she begins to miss you, she'll begin to think progressively more about you.

Basic human psychology suggests that we want something progressively more, the more and more we can't have it. The more that you distance yourself from her, the more that she's going to want you back.

Remember when you were dating in high school. Which was more amusing, the chase or the catch? The chase is always the fun part, because you're hunting something that you don't have yet, which makes you desire it even more.

Step 3 - Plan the get together

After you have finished the 2 steps mentioned above, you can start working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again. This will make it possible for you to get a far better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any possibility that you and your ex will be able to get back together.

"How do I get my ex back?" can be slightly more complicated than the 3 steps above. However, they are a great start and will improve your possibilities of winning your ex back.