The question of "How should guys talk to women" is often asked by guys that don’t know much about interacting with women. Talking to a mediocre woman is easy as you don’t really care how she would look at you. However, when you’re talking with a gorgeous woman, you are so eager to have her acknowledgement that you lose your usual control over yourself.

The only way to overcome your anxiousness around beautiful women is practicing with a lot of them. Sound fearful? Or are you afraid of being humiliated? Are you scared of being called a stalker? Well, if you know how to pick the right attitude for the right social environment, those things won’t happen. Knowing how to talk to women also means that you know how to proceed in different situations.

When inside a bar or club

You can easily find the hottest and most gorgeous women here, thus many guys think that this is the very best place to strike a conversation and (hopefully) pick them up. On the contrary, this is the hardest place to go at it since they often know already what you’re trying to pull off.

Use as an opening line that these girls often have guys that try to pick them up. Pretend to have a discussion with your friend and ask her the lamest pick up line she heard. With this as starter, you automatically start a conversation where the topic is about her and you can escalate it to many different things.

In a friendlier social environment such as mutual friend’s wedding or party

This environment is a lot easier than the first. Often you would be given a warm reply when you try to talk here with women. Needless to say, your conversation starter is how she is connected with the host. Throw some jokes about your experience with the host, then immediately move to other subject about her.

Never ever make the conversation sound like an interview so that she won’t give you brief answers. Focus on queries about concepts, emotions, opinions, and ideas. What’s the funniest experience she has with the host? Suppose she can move to any place in the world, where would that be? Never forget to tease the girl when she replies because that is how you must flirt with women.

In a non social environment such as grocery store or bookstore

Depend on her mood, this can be easy or hard to accomplish. The good thing is she won’t expect to be approached in such places, so you can get away with lame opener that usually won’t work in a club or bar. However, there is possibility that she might not in the mood for meeting people. One can notice this from her replies. When this happens, retreat and go no further.

One effective way of starting a talk is to stand beside the girl and implore her to retrieve an item that’s found on the shelf she’s looking at. It should be related to the one that she’s holding on, thus you can ask her something about the subject. An easy starter is asking for an item recommendation. Tell her that she seems good in this subject, then hold 2 items and ask her opinion about them.

From the examples above, I’m sure you already know how to talk to women. Just start with a friendly topic that interesting to them, the immediately move to another topic to build rapport and attraction.