Infrequently, circumstances happen within relationships that will send both people involved spiraling out of control. Often, a break can happen out of the blue, no matter who is to blame. After breaking up, you could find that you and your ex are still staying in touch and this is often, when both parties concerned play games. You might find yourself staying single in hopes that your ex will want to get together. You may even find yourself being "led on" to believe such a thing will happen by your ex. This may prove intense and cause you to feel hopeless and at the mercy of your ex. Getting back with an ex should not prove this intense.

This is a vulnerable time, especially when one person wants to get back together and the other one is playing games. Most people realize the games being played but are so desperate in needing to re-light the relationship , they cast a blind eye to the manipulation involved. You could be finding that your ex girlfriend or beau is continuously making statements about getting back together, yet, they never act on their words. Scenarios like this may quickly turn into a vicious cycle with both parties involved losing trust in one another. Anyone who finds themselves in this position should remind themselves that reunions are meant to be content not full of distrust and misery.

These eventualities prove difficult and annoying for anybody to endure. You must realize in dealing with this stress that occasionally couples are meant to be together but sometimes, you have got to make a decision that is best for you, not the other person you are attempting to re-light a romance with. You cannot force your ex into re-lighting the love, regardless of how much you need this to occur. If somebody is going to constantly play games with you, it is apparent they are not a tight fit as a partner for you. When manipulation enters its ugly head after breakups, this is an indication of taking you for granted. If you're doing everything possible to get back together and the other person is not, there arrives a point when you must firmly place your foot down.

Getting back with your ex or boyfriend is often not actually worth the misery and heart ache involved in the procedure. If someone actually loves you, they won't lead you on with their "words", instead, they will follow up their words with action. Whether or not someone doesn't want to get together again, if they truly care about you, they are going to be honest and let you go, if they don't want to re-ignite the love. Do not waste your time on anyone that only appears self-absorbed in not wanting you to continue with your life. If they actually want to get together, they're going to work on performing such measures, don't permit anybody to make you be at their disposal.