Are you dealing with a break-up? Thinking how are you intending to make it work again. We frequently feel like this when we actually love the one we lost, and know you may have done something better. Not necessarily do you have to think it's totally over. Splits might be a good thing as oppressive as that can sound. I have got five methods that helped me get my ex-boyfriend back.

1 - Never end your relationship on bad terms. Clearly, if you are breaking up you are probably not on good terms already. If that is the case don't totally disregard your x-boyfriend. You need to make sure he still knows you care. Be good, and do not avoid him. It's natural to want to pay no heed to your ex- boyfriend, particularly if you're hurt. You have got to try your absolute best to be additional nice.

2 - Continue to have open lines of communication. Which will just mean you'll have to be first to say sorry, regardless of whether your ex-boyfriend isn't prepared to accept your apologies or apologize for his actions also. It is normal to be afraid of refusal. Not one of us wish to be refused especially by the one we adore. Be confident and be yourself.

3 - Don't pressure him to want to get back with you. Now that you've says sorry and made it known that you continue to care things may start to change. Do not expect anything in return from your ex- boyfriend. It may seem like he doesn't care at first but he might actually be considering how nice you're acting and how much you care. This may be a little overwhelming for him, particularly if he isn't use to seeing you so nice.

4 - Change the things you use to do that you keep getting identical results. What i mean by that is if there is something your ex- boyfriend keeps griping that you do, perhaps it is time to stop. We tend to ignore the stuff we think are insignificant when they're usually the biggest problem to the other person.

5 - Be slow to react and quick to listen. We naturally wish to act upon our feelings. This is the biggest mistake you might make. Stop and hear your ex-boyfriend. There may be something you're failing to hear that if you only listen and then act, things will change to your favor.

These are simply a few steps that can help you leap back to your ex- boyfriend's arms. Hope it helps you like it helped me.