Everybody of us in our lives has experienced a split. We sure don't think about break-ups when we start a new relationship. We target the positive and happy instances when a relationship is fairly new. With time, issues may happen in any relationship. Here are a couple of tips that can help you in case your boyfriend wants some space. You're probably asking yourself, space? What does he mean space? There may be several reasons why your boyfriend may need space. It does not necessarily mean there's something you are doing wrong , it could just be he is having personal issues. These personal issues may be a current private problem he could be facing at work, family, and so on. Insecurity could also be a cause that he may want space or even fear of commitment.

First, you have to take control of your emotions at about that point. I know this is a shock to you, but you have got to remember the word "self-control". I know this hard to do, especially that you are in love but do not let your boyfriend take the very best of you. Don't jump right into conclusions or think why he wants space. Ask your boyfriend for clarification on why he would like space. You need to see the clear picture and the explanation for it before making any decisions of your own.

If you do see your boyfriend still communicating, this is a good sign. He may still have possible feelings for you. Don't stop communicating if this is the case. Keep your communication to a minimal though. Don't make yourself completely available. You want to confirm he realizes he lost you. Do remember you do not want to have your wall totally up. Ask him how's he doing and coping with his situation. This allows him to see that you really care about him and not only focused on your relationship. Self confidence is the key at this point.

Within time he'll start to show signs that he still need you in his life. Though do expect the opposite. He could just wish to be buddies. You need to be emotionally be prepared to expect either or. Shall we say he is slowly trying to warm down to you, then remain receptive and re-light the relationship you have, even if its just buddies for now.

If your boyfriend continues to draw close to you, then you can try to open up a bit. Remind him of the great times you shared together and silly moments. Stay away from negative talk or bad experiences in your relationship. You need him to draw closer, not push him away. If he does show signals that aren't showing any interest, then do push away. You do not want to get to concerned and be grief-stricken again.

I hope in your case he's indeed heading your direction, and before you know it, you're back in each others arms. I went through an identical situation and there were steps I had to take to win my ex-boyfriend back. Hope it works for you!