Every relationship has it highs and lows. Of course, you want ensure you have more ups than downs. Every problem has a solution , it is a matter of choosing how hard you are going to work at it. Giving up is always the easiest way out. When you truly love someone, you do your utmost to work at your best and make it happen for its best.

First, you wish to ask each other is the difficulty really worth arguing about or for that matter breaking- up over. Once you have this questions addressed, we are able to go on. We are really in hope of a no, but I have answers to both. If the answer is no, then you have the green light to work together. Don't push to talk about it straight away. Give each other a little time to think about the issue and agree on a time you can both get together to chat about your differences.

In case, the difficulty is worth breaking up over, then yes do give one another space. Don't jump the van and begin to push your ex boyfriend to work things out with you immediately. You might be the reason behind the problem, so you want to give it some time for both of you to think about things. If in this case, you are the problem in the relationship, then we have some work to do.

Don't call him right away or show you're desperate to get back with him. Focus on yourself, as tough as this will seem right now. Go out and get some fresh air. Join the gymnasium if you have got to, begin looking better. Purchasing some new garments always helps boost your self-esteem too. Go cosset and beautify yourself. Let him see you at your best, this may definitely have him wondering about you. Remember he's expecting you to be at his feet, begging him back, so you do not need to start this way.

Once you've focused on yourself for one week, this is going to be sufficient time to see results on his end. By this time he's probably text or called you. Do respond to him. Don't forget his calls, but do stay robust and do not let him notice that you would like him back immediately. Once he expresses that he misses you and wants to chat things out and you agree start to make him feel you are still interested to work things out also.

Do not be defensive when your ex boyfriend expresses things about you, that you might need to switch. Take his feedback as a positive one. We all mess up, you are still in time to modify it around and work at making your weaknesses your strengths. I have a belief in you. Now it is a matter of how much do you have a belief in yourself? These steps could also turn things around for you and not push your ex boyfriend away. It worked nicely for me why not for you?