It’s funny how both sexes – male and female – are baffled with how to deal with the opposite sex especially in relationships when, in fact, it’s generally the same! During break ups, winning a boyfriend back isn’t any different from trying to get your girlfriend back. In both cases there is but one common mistake that, despite of the warnings, tips and advice given by friends, family and even online, seems to be committed over and over again.

This leads us to the golden rule when trying to win your girlfriend back: don’t be too CLINGY. Your natural instincts would tell you to show your ex girlfriend how much you need her and that you’re nothing without her. This is a big fat mistake. If there’s one thing you must remember when trying to get your girlfriend back is that women hate clingy men. Don’t get too carried away by your emotions and show her your pitiful self. You cannot talk your girl into getting back together with you. Instead, what you need to do is to show her that you understand what she’s feeling and that you know what she wants.

What is it really that she wants, then? Ironically, is that she wants you back as well. All you have to do is to pave the path for her to come back. This is a flawless way to get your girlfriend back and has been successfully tried and tested by many men. Men who have almost lost all hopes of ever winning their girl back. You will not only win her back, but you will also transform your relationship into a much stronger and healthier one.

But be sure to act fast. Your ex girlfriend can’t wait for you forever. If you don’t act at this very instant, your girl will soon find someone else and all hopes of ever sharing your life with her again will be but a shattered dream.

There is but one secret to maintaining or winning back a relationship you once lost. It’s the one trait that separates the women from the men. It’s funny how most men often overlook this when in fact it is what they have to pay attention to the most. You see all you have to do is give your woman what she wants. But here’s the tricky secret: most women don’t even know what they want and the lucky few who do would rather die than simply give it to you.

Figuring this out could be quite a challenge for you. If most women don’t know what they want, what more the men who don’t even have a clue as to how the complex mind of the female species works. One thing you could do is to be sensitive. Listen to everything she says and gather your clues from there. It’s true the women mean the opposite of what they say but when they realize that you’re not really listening that’s when they pour everything out and accuse you for not paying attention. So to avoid this, be sure to listen. Also, try to gather clues from her friends and family. Once you’ve surprised her by giving her what she wants, you two will be back together in no time!