Breakup really sucks, does it not? However, there are good things that might come out of every breakup. For instance, you can have the precious time with yourself that you hardly have while in a relationship. But if you are really into a person and you want to get your ex back, you will need to be a bit more passive and holistic. You do not have to make it difficult. Here are five helpful tips to get your ex back the easy way.

1. Avoid giving your ex all the attention. Do not call every day. Do not leave a bunch of messages. Do not even text or email him or her! All these efforts will just end up pathetic and this might even lead your ex to think that you are desperate to get back with him or her. Instead, give it a slack and let your ex have some space. This could actually make him or her miss you more. Bombarding your ex with all types of communication will not help and will make him or her feel harassed with your presence.

2. Relive your social life and spend time outside. Sitting and crying all day is another way of admitting you are weak and helpless. Get up and get out. Call your friends, eat at a fancy restaurant, and party all night! Who knows you might meet someone better than your ex. However, if you are that persistent to get your ex back, make sure you give him time to miss you. As much as possible, do not let him get the idea that you are totally dependent with his or her presence. Later on, you will realize how great you are with yourself.

3. Most importantly, figure and determine what the problems you two have had and if you are willing to work and fix them. Particularly, you need to self-reflect and determine which part of your personality that your ex did not stand. This will also help become a better and more empowered person than you already are. But keep in mind that compromise is always an option for you both.

4. Also, if you want to get your ex back, do not engage in sexual relationships with others. Remember that exclusivity is one thing that a person requires in romantic relationships. While you enjoy flirting, bear in mind the consequences it can bring especially if you are trying to win your ex back. Instead, be friends with your ex and spend more time with him or her as a friend. Do things that you enjoy doing such as playing computer games, outdoor stuff, etc. Your ex might even tell you how he or she missed being with your company as a friend.

5. Lastly, avoid playing games or trifling with his or her emotions if you want to get your ex back. Remember that he or she knows you. If you give the idea that you have not changed, then things can get really frustrating. Remember that you are striving for another chance at your relationship so do not blow it.