One of the most frequent questions people ask themselves after a break up is does my ex still love me. People ask this question with desperation in their hearts.They ask this question with a pain deep inside their heart. Can we save the time we have invested? Is it too late? Can we ever be together again?

Here is some good new for a change. More than likely they do. Hope exists. Just because your ex left, does not mean they don't love you and miss you. Frustration hurts a relationship, which is more than likely why your ex left, but it doesn't have to kill it if you proceed with the correct plan. They might not have thought they had any other choice.

People get back together all the time. You probably know people that have made up even after cheating. However if you have a desire to get back with your ex, there is a plan that you must follow to be effective.

Well, does my ex still love me? Ask yourself these questions.Are they going out or staying at home? Do they act depressed? Are they drinking more? With the history you have together, the two of you are in the same position.

People are naturally pack animals. Being a hermit is not natural. It is not normal for humans to picture themselves alone. Think of your favorite things to do. Most if not all of the pictures have other people involved. If you want to get your ex back, this can be used to your advantage.

I mentioned a plan of what you had to do. First some things you must not do. Stop pleading. You will only tend to drive a wedge deeper between you and further frustrate your ex. Stop stalking them by emailing them, texting them, showing up where they will be,and leaving voice mails. Even if they do take or return your calls or messages, without the proper things to say, will only create a new argument, or continue an old one.

Here is what you need to do. The first step is paramount and cannot be overestimated. There is no room for error here, you must do this right. This step must be executed precisely if you hope to reunite with your ex. If done correctly, your chances increase exponentially.

Learn how to wipe the slate clean. It is possible to start over with your ex like nothing ever happened. It doesn't matter what caused your break up, you can learn how to wipe the slate clean.

Mail them a letter. Not any letter, it must say certain precise things that make them call you. Do not email it, text it, hand write it. This letter will invoke certain feelings if done properly.

Next you meet. If you do not have the meeting precisely timed and planned, you will only resume the same old arguments and frustration. There is a simple thing you can do to re-bond the two of you together in the mind of your ex.