Many women ask their girlfriends, mothers and sisters on how to salvage a relationship that has recently ended or been put on hold. Taking advice from women on how to win back boyfriend is a waste of time.

The only way to truly know what to do and what not to do to win a back boyfriend is to ask a man. We have the ability to explain what works and what doesn't work better than a woman whose explanation comes from assumption and personal experience. Men have a few general rules that apply to a majority of break up situations and only a man has the capacity to explain how a man feels.

Here are four general rules men have about break- ups:

1. When a man initiates the break up at the very least he needs space and time. Sometimes men break up with their girlfriends, not because they don't love them, but because they feel smothered or at a loss of what else to do.

2. Don't press him for answers because he has none. If he had any then you might not be in this situation. One of the keys on how to win back boyfriend involves giving him space. Don't call or text all of the time. Just let him know you still care and when he's ready, you'd like to talk.

3. Another method of how to win back boyfriend is by not acting desperate. You would be surprised what actions a man categorizes under the desperate column. Besides excessive calling... crying, begging, unexpected visits, letters, emails and making it obvious you can't live without him are all acts of desperation.

4. Keep moving forward with your life as hard as that may seem. Be confident and use the extra time to focus on your hobbies, your job, your girlfriends or your family.

If you want to know how to win back boyfriend remember a man's advice will most likely prove to be most effective. Don't assume the break up is permanent but don't exert unnecessary and potentially damaging efforts into winning him back.

If he's in the position to change his mind about the break up, these are two certain methods that will give you a better advantage over the situation.

This advice is just getting you off of the start line. There is a lot more to learn about how men thinks and reacts to a break up with their girlfriend. You need to get expert advice and, more important, a plan that will guide you through this rough time in your life. A plan that will get back your boyfriend.

The good news is your chances of getting back your boyfriend are good. Most relationships can be saved with the right plan on how to win back boyfriend!

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