If you like to get on with talking dirty, you have to get it coming to you naturally. You may look up some books and magazines or even the internet to pick up a few trendy and sexy phrases; but you will never get the real feeling you desire unless you do it the natural way, which amounts to role-playing basically. For a start, try relating your deepest erotic fantasies to your partner so that he gets the right images forming in his head.

You cannot just start talking dirty without adequate preparations and the proper background to set the mood just right for the night. Some big cushions and silk sheets may be got along with soothing music to take away any tenseness and make both of you feel relaxed Get a heap of candles to ensure a continuous soft glow all through the night and also for its effect of a romantic touch.

Start communicating your real feelings honestly without any inhibitions. When he does something to you, let him know exactly how you are affected and how you feel. Be frank and tell him if that is exactly what you want and don't feel afraid to tell him if you prefer something else. In case you need something different, describe exactly why you want that and how it tickles your feelings. So, you have now already started to talk dirty the natural way; keep it up!

You may now find out what he really likes you to do with him. When he says what he likes you to do with him, don't hesitate to ask him to give a more detailed description so that you could do to him exactly what he desires. While doing to him as he wants, find out what feelings he is getting when you are doing it. By now, he also should be getting the idea of this whole operation and will surely enjoy going along with it.

As both of you gain in confidence through this interaction of truly revealing yourselves to each other and how much both matter to each other, you will notice that your erotic feelings are being aroused now at a very much higher intensity than ever before.

You may find sexually explicit but commonly used erotic phrases on talking dirty. If you are new to this game, feeling a little uncomfortable over this in the initial stages is understandable. You may also have to accurately assess your partner's real inclinations to ensure that you don't offend him by either doing too little or too much. With a little time and open frankness both of you will soon get the hang of how to proceed with talking dirty for a more ecstatic relationship while adjusting to each other's limitations.