These have never really been a goal of mine, but I know that there are a lot of men who do not mind an occasional romp that does not lead to a relationship. Males are more involved in quick sex, as a general rule. But, there are also a lot of women who desire sex with no obligation of a relationship. And, at some point in your dating life, you will probably run into what I define the reverse payback. Essentially , you fall in love with a girl you sleep with right off the bat, but basically, she only sought after a romp in the hay, and she quickly gets rid of you.

In case your intention is to have casual sex with no connection to any particular girl, then you are going to have to step up your energy and your psychology. As I mentioned before, there are many women who are involved in the same thing, but they still want the same primary elements that other women want and demand , attraction, confidence, and respect. They just want them in different quantities.

In order for her to cooperate with you quickly, you have to be very aggressive with your joking and your humor, as well as be very ready to move forward with your progression a lot faster. You want to go from wherever you are to more private surroundings as quickly as possible. The secret is to make her isolated so you can work with her one on one. You start by isolating her from other friends, then into a surrounding not near all other people. This has to be done the same time with your intensification of your approach.

The ideal candidates for one night stand are women who you have an instant chemistry with. Things just click , and you are able to go ahead much quicker than with a woman who has setup a lot of obstacles to your seduction. These women are not easy by no means , they are just prepared for you. From time to time, these people come along and we can not deny our immediate appeal. Now, remember that these women are on the far side of the spectrum , so use caution and self discipline along the way.

behaviour of a one night stand is totally up to you and your desires. I have known many people who started a good short term romance from a one night stand woman. Though you should note that it is difficult to transition from a brief sexual experiment into a more secure relationship, since you will have put the cart before the horse, so to speak. The foundation of most short to long term affairs is best created with a more prolonged period before you please your desires.

The best way to manage things is to be very careful not to put out a false pretense at any point during the seduction. Do not lie or con your way into her pants or her bed . All of this information is to be used honorably, and using false pretenses to get laid is dishonorable, and you will bear consequences. I am not going to threaten you with bad Karma, but you should know that every action you take influences you and your life. Being a player in the bad sense of the word will only come back to haunt you later.