You need to forgive people to be happy. Maybe you was betrayed and hurt, but what you need to do right now is learn forgiveness. Learn to be happy again and learn to trust again. Life is beautiful and you will enjoy it even more once you forgive others and yourself.

A world would be a better place if you learn forgiveness now. Don't hold resentment and grief of unfulfilled expectations. You probably hurt others too, so if you want to be forgiven, you need to forgive others. Remember how you felt when someone accused you of something. The same way others would feel if they know you couldn't forgive them. Maybe you want them suffer? If you do, you need to realize that what happened to you wasn't your fault.

Sometimes we think it's our fault, or that we are not good enough when people don't treat us the way we want. You could get angry and upset at someone who didn't treat you the way you wanted to be treated. What should you do in this situation? It's easy to say to forgive people and don't expect to be liked by everybody. Remember that many people feel the same way to a certain degree. Everybody wants to have everything we want.

When something doesn't go your way, you could get confused, angry and frustrated. People have emotions. Is it a blessing or a curse? It can be a blessing, can be curse in a certain situation. You shouldn't be grateful you can experience any feelings. If you didn't know what is bad, you wouldn't appreciate what is good in your life as much. Learn to be happy with what you have.

What if you enjoy negative thoughts and you enjoy feeling depressed? Some people go through period in life when they are depressed and sad and don't know how come out of it. Learn to be happy every day. Start with forgiving others.

Try to watch funny movies and listen to your favorite music, it will destruct you from depressive thoughts that you can have. Do what you love. Some people get angry when they aren't enjoy life and if they get angry easily. Learn patience, be grateful for everything you have, great health, job and friends or family.

Most of the time when people really want something, it is just a fantasy. People are trying to chase the most attractive fantasy and make it real. It's o'kay to have a fantasy and expect something good, but don't get angry and upset if takes time for all your dreams and expectations to come true. Life is a big lesson for all of us. Learn to be happy, do what you can to find great and amazing things in your life.