Psst!! Sexy Moms... Secrets to Make him a Sexy Dad!

All men want to do is make us happy. And we know when mama's happy, everybody's happy. And ladies, as much as I wish I didn't have to say this, it's not his job to make us happy. It's ours.

So ladies, consider this. Virtually ALL men say what they really want is a happy wife and an afternoon to himself WITHOUT the wife nagging or guilt tripping him.

Yet, are you like me? Are there days when you feel this is too much to ask? In fact have you felt abandoned by him? Have you felt the kids, laundry, scheduling, presents for HIS in laws, and the house were left for you to handle?

And yet are you like me and what you really wanted is to be happy and have your man appreciate you and walk through that door and grab you passionately for once!? Are you like me and know you aren't attractive when you're needy, angry, aloof, snippy, or distant, EVEN though you may be totally justified?

So I know I am asking a lot for some of you to open your heart wider than these misfortunes, but open your heart anyways. Be bold. After a nice breakfast in bed that you and the kids orchestrate for him... announce that the King may roam his Kingdom all day without any demands from his court. FREEDOM is what he craves... freedom with no attachments.

Meanwhile have the kids spend the afternoon with friends, family or at a day camp while YOU fill up your tanks.

The point here is that the biggest gift we can give our men is a happy wife to come home to AND the illusion that HE is responsible for making us the radiant sexy goddess that we are... men are so cute, they want to take credit for everything so let them!

YOU check into a spa or sink into your very own tub, shave those legs, paint those toes, call those girlfriends that make you howl with laughter, listen to the music that makes you feel like a goddess, read a spicy book, listen to juicy interviews... do what YOU KNOW fills YOU up.

Then we the evening draws to a close... the kids have had fun, he's had his freedom, you are oozing radiance because you've given yourself some lovin' and now he gets the best gift ever- YOU! Yet, not the "Obligation-You", the "Dutiful Sex-You", the "Expected Strip Tease-You"... no... you've filled your self up from the inside out and you ARE

love, overflowing and you want nothing more than to shower the man you love, with your light. He won't know what hit him.

Moms... if we wait for everyone else to make us happy, we're guaranteed to have a lackluster life. If we fill up our tanks first... we find we are naturally radiant creature and we create the safe inviting space for our men in to contribute to our happiness. Mean want a guarantee they can win at making us happy! The greatest gift you can give your man a Happy YOU! Make love that night and really mean it. Be grateful for him and really mean it.

It's not more to do. It's a lifestyle of taking care of yourself. Filling yourself up first allows you to be more patient with the kids, more ravishing for your man and more happy with who you see inside and out, when you look in the mirror. Your family's worth it, your marriage it worth it and YOU my gorgeous moms, are worth it!