When we fundamentally understand that we have a multitude of considerations

that impact how we are in relationship, our view of change and the

importance of change is magnified.

Let’s take a few minutes and communicate about relationships and change.

When you were a youngster, did you enjoy looking into a Kaleidoscope?

Were you amazed at the infinite varieties of colors and patterns that evolved as it turned in your hand? Did you ever turn it so quickly that you did not have a chance to fully appreciate what you were watching because things were changing so quickly in the little viewer?

The changes in the viewer pale in comparison to the changes experienced in the last decade--and the changes we will experience in the years to come.

There was very little to think about when turning that little Kaleidoscope:

just look and enjoy. If you view the world of relationship as a Kaleidoscope,

you will see change. Rather than standing there mesmerized or memorizing

the colors and patterns as if you can keep things the same, imagine what it

might be like to be the colors.

For openers, think about every second of

your life, every minute, every day, being different from the preceding second,

minute, or day. No two interactions or opportunities are the same, just

as the patterns in the Kaleidoscope are never the same. Changes are

inevitable--in behavior, in life patterns, in your knowledge base, in your

habits, and in your relationships. We are not the same person we were even

moments ago.

People change. Look around you. Are there new people in your life that

were not there a month ago, six months ago, last year? Get to know people

around you, and get involved with them. Don’t just observe the changes passively, as if you are looking into a viewer. Be a part of them. Get to know

people you come into contact with, what they do, what makes them tick.

Become interested in them and how you can help them. They’ll do the same

for you and you’ll enjoy life more.

Technology changes. Are you still using the same equipment as one, two,

five years ago? Not very likely. And the equipment you are now using will

become obsolete in the near future. Further more, staying abreast of the

technological changes and discussing preferred communication tools with

your partner is key in developing a collaborative relationship.

Leadership techniques change. When was the last time you picked up and

read a management book for insight about new management and leadership

practices?

An understanding of the changing needs of today’s workforce (that’s all of

us!) will help you be more progressive and able to meet and partner with

others within or outside your organization.

Economic factors, urgency, people’s values, technology, and relationship

management: all changing everyday, truly a Kaleidoscope. You can become

a part of the Kaleidoscope--get inside the viewer--and be the one who

determines the next pattern, if you make up your mind to.