If you are asking yourself how do I get my ex husband back, then this information will put you in the drivers seat. Don’t make the mistake thousands of women make when trying to get back together with their ex husband. Learn how to do it successfully.

Here are some important things you need to consider when trying to get your ex husband to come back to you. First, you need to accept that your relationship has changed. Next, you need to make sure that you do not neglect your own well being. Third, you must realize that the only person you have complete control over is yourself.

So what should you do now?

Avoid all communication with your ex husband. This means stop calling him, emailing him or contacting him in any way. This will give each of you some breathing room. If your ex husband feels smothered by you or your desperation, it will only keep him further away from you. Remember this is temporary, but very powerful. Although it may seem like a long time, avoid

contact with your ex for at least a month. Each day you do this it will get easier.

This will allow both of you some space. If your ex husband is accustomed to hearing from you regularly, it will definitely raise his curiosity and make him wonder why you suddenly lost interest in him. This will cause him to start thinking, maybe even obsessing about you. This is what you want – him to begin thinking about you.

The next most important thing is to remember is to take good care of yourself. Eat healthy. Avoid junk foods. Snack on healthy fruits and veggies instead. Use all the veggie dip you want, it sure beats a bag of potato chips. Get some exercise – even a 20 minute brisk walk is good. Exercise reduces stress and will help you sleep better. The best part is that you

will start to look good which will help you feel better as well.

Part of taking care of yourself means avoiding isolation. Get social. Contact friends and family. When you do get together with your friends and family, avoid talking about your ex endlessly. People tend to stay away from chronic complainers, so don’t be a drag. Force yourself to focus on other things and topics that make you happy, rather than one subject that is

causing you distress. This will take some practice, but keep doing it.

Lastly, take control of your life. Know that the only person you have complete control over is you and no one else. Avoid being so desperate and giving your ex husband all the control. This will only let him feel like he can do what he wants and have you whenever he wants you.

Now that you understand the importance of taking back control of your life, you can begin to approach getting your ex husband back in a whole new way. Remember that by stopping any contact with your ex for awhile and taking care of yourself, you will give your ex something to think about and now he will have a chance to miss you.